Having Sex with Time

A note for all my good people of the galaxy out there: I'm pretty awesome. Anyone who doesn't think so just doesn't get my attention. See! Easy! With that in mind, people on many occasions have asked me "How do you do all that you do? How do you find the time?" The answer to that question is simple: I don't find time. Time's just there. I live my life. It's hard if you're out here in Babylon trying to figure out how to use limited resources (like money and time) and I had this conversation recently with a friend about Time Management to better explain what I mean. This was the beginning of it:

>>I take an organic holistic view of everything. Not a neo revolutionary organic/holistic view, but a view based on the understanding that we all come here with: doesn't matter what we're doing: it's all about how it makes us feel.

If the idea of "time management" makes you feel like you're doing something that sucks, you'll avoid it.
However, if you recognize that everything in the realm of organization is tied into everything else in life, it becomes not only manageable, but also incredibly fun.

Time management is like sex. It doesn't just happen in the moment. You kinda have to be in the realm of "foreplay" with the object of your affection at all times and you're in the realm of foreplay with them because you really like them and you want to fuck them every time you see them...so when you finally get into a private place, you can't keep your hands off each other and sex happens all the time.
However, if you're not really into the object of your affection and sex feels like a chore, you end up "doing it" just to say you did it and eventually, you look back and you haven't had sex in 3 months.
Time management is the same way. In order for it to work, you have to always want to fuck the thing you're managing in the context of time.
And that's where most people fall off from the very start: they're "managing" things they're not passionate about. So the techniques that they use are a pain in the ass...like unwanted sex. <<

Is death only for the privileged?

The more I reflect on and discuss this, the more unsettled I become. On March 7, Elizabeth Vega, aka, The Mistress of Death was on Uranus Is Blue discussing death and dying. Elizabeth is an expert on the subject and we were very candid about specific end of life issues as well as her sharing a story about the daughter she lost. Uranus Is Blue is an uncensored radio show where I play groovy tunes, much of it hip hop, and talk about stuff. Anywho, Elizabeth got some flack from a listener saying that our topic of discussion was inappropriate in that context...which implies that my audience shouldn't talk about death and that our music is not a respectable backdrop for such a discussion. Race, class and privilege rearing its ugly head once again. Elizabeth addressed it in her blog, but it pains me to constantly be reminded that people really don't see themselves and their microaggressive and conspicuous racist and classist worldviews that aim to limit the human experiences of others...and as a result have a destructive effect on us humans who are navigating through this bullshit simply working to live in love. I have no answer. I have no solution. But now, I feel even more compelled to do whatever the fuck I please.

"This is what grieving in community can look like. The Dia De Los Muertos Altar discussed on the show...We are designed for the rough and tumble work of the human experience but it must be embarked upon collectively." -Elizabeth Vega

If you have no idea what I'm talking about, which is fine, we're all learning, refer to the sources below:

1. This article from Sisters of Resistance that discusses microaggressive racism.    
2. Listen to my and Elizabeth's discussion on Uranus Is Blue here.
3. Read Elizabeth's response about the "flack" here.

In My Audacious Opinion

Thank you Kalana Hotep for the inspiration.

In response to a recent discussion on the Colonial Age, the Industrial Age, the Information Age, and Black students' relative educational advantages (and disadvantages), I noted the following. I call this piece "In My Audacious Opinion."

I think that the Information Age is a great opportunity to close the gaps of educational disparities in Black communities. However, I think it's not gonna be through the traditional education system. Those who have bought into the largely imperialistic, class oriented, and greatly European educational structure in America will probably graduate with inadequate preparation for the society they will be living in...not to mention starting their adulthood in copious unforgivable debt. However, this unfortunate reality is no longer limited to just Black folks. All students of all races and cultures are at a disadvantage through the "remember this, fill in bubble, get A" model of education in the University systems. The only way to advance in the information age is to learn how to acquire, understand, find, use, evaluate, and synthesize information. This knowledge is learned by anyone who is vigilant about their own education. Libraries are free. Going and talking to elders is free. Volunteering with various organizations like Teach for America, Habitat for Humanity, and even global volunteering initiatives will equip young people with the tools to interact with people from various cultures and communities, learn useful information, and communicate effectively. The internet is full of information and opportunities for personal growth. We no longer live in an age of classroom textbook knowledge, as the textbooks are watered down and extremely biased toward white male perspectives. Classroom/textbook information for the first time since the colonial age is actually digressing toward the slave model of education (i.e., teaching students to be employees instead of critical thinkers and creatives). As a result, I predict that over the next 10-15 years, we will see a swell of college dropouts who are beginning to own their businesses and employ people in their community because they understand (1)exchange and (2)people...and college graduates are gonna become more and more disgruntled as a result of fighting to procure "jobs" that ultimately degrade their minds, limit their creativity, and create a false sense of superiority to people without "jobs". We are in the Wild West of information acquisition and those with a goal to LEARN (as opposed to collect social status through institutional affiliation) will be successful in the Information Age, regardless of race.